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There are times that you feel that something is going to happen, and one of the signals is the unsettled feeling in your gut.If you are alone in an unfamiliar place and you feel it, you know that there is only one thing to, and that is to leave.The unsettling feeling in your gut may also be a factor in determining your current relationship.
Many people say that you cannot choose who you fall in love with.It may be a saying for others or a warning for some people, but this is true. “Past science has shown we don’t always select relationship candidates who match what we proclaim to want and like,” Jenna Birch wrote in her article for the Well+Good.Most of the time, even people think that they are in a perfect relationship, they will feel that punch in their gut, but they will not do anything about it.
Though logic and reason do not work in love, they can help you filter a toxic relationship from a healthy one.Even you say that you are compatible and there is chemistry between the two of you, “Deep in your gut, you feel the weight of information your subconscious has processed,” Birch mentioned.
You may say that you have already found the one, but when the unsettling feeling in your gut kicks in, you know that you should do something about your relationship.Nowadays, there are many things that you have to consider before dating someone and relationships are more confusing than before. “We have chucked the scripts in an attempt to write our very own stories, reinventing partnership roles, and relationship trajectories,” Birch wrote.
This is the time that you should not rely on old sayings about love, instead, you should make your own.You know yourself better than anybody else.So, you know what you want, who you want, and the love you deserve.